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Tools, strategies and community support to grow your daughter's confidence and self-worth so you can both navigate her teenage years with happiness and ease.

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Watching your daughter struggle with low confidence can be one of the hardest things in the world for a parent. 

You know she's incredible just as she is. You can see her uniqueness and beauty and potential. 

But she won't hear it. 

She's struggling with self-doubt, consumed by what others think of her and scared to get out of her comfort zone. 

Opportunities for fun, growth and life experiences are being missed because of her need to fit in, her fear of failure and constant negative thoughts.

You wish you could get through to her, lift her out of it and show her a world of possibility. 

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But what to say? When to push? How to guide her?

You've read the books. And the blogs. Devoured podcasts. Been down the google rabbit hole in the quiet of night.

You've got all the information under the sun at your fingertips, but you still question your tactics, your decisions, your tone, heck - probably even your ability to even be a parent! 

In all honesty, you don't need MORE information. often you know what you're supposed to do.

It's the doing it that's hard.

Welcome to your Raising Flames Village

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A growing community and resource hub for parents who want to support their teenage daughter's confidence development, improve their communication and strengthen their bond.

YES, THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT I NEED!
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MEET YOUR VILLAGE GUIDE

Hey there, I'm Tanya Meessmann.

AKA: The Teen Whisperer.

I'm pretty down-the-line. This parenting gig is hard, often thankless, sometimes hurtful, and at times brings into question why you're putting so much emotion and effort into someone who doesn't appear to want a bar of it!

So many of us are excellent at life: our jobs, our friendships, our homes. But when it comes to trying to protect, guide and support someone we created, all of that can go out the window pretty quickly. 

I've created the Raising Flames Village for parents who want to ensure they are the go-to person for their daughter in her time of need, and actively build their daughter's confidence and self-worth.

"Tanya is instantly engaging both in a group and personal setting. She is able to bring the best out of parenrts, creating a safe yet challenging environment for us to learn and take risks." ."

Kathleen, Parent of 12 yr old daughter

"Inspirational, a wonderful opportunity to help young teenage girls grow into awesome young ladies in this crazy, social media-fuelled world."

Jodie, Parent of 13 & 15 yr old daughters

"Tanya's guidance is high quality, relevant, and presented in a format that embraces young women and allows them to blossom in their individual way.”

Cameron, Parent of 17 yr old daughter

The village supports parents just like you.

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Your 12-14 YEAR OLD daughter is heading into the thick of the 'Identity Phase' so she's pulling away, emotions are running high and everything you do and say is wrong!
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Your 15-18 year old's life is a whole new level of challenging: being faced with confidence crushing influences every day, from social media to body issues to bullying.
Ready to jump in?
YES, LET'S GET STARTED
IT'S TIME TO DO.

How the Village helps you 'do' the doing. 

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WEEKLY ACTION PROMPTS

You can read blog posts and listen to podcasts until you're blue in the face. Our weekly prompts are quick and easy to implement, helping you see your daughter's confidence increase in less than 30 minutes a week.

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MONTHLY MOTIVATION

Want to throw everything at it? Each month we're keeping it interesting with Live Workshops, Interactive Challenges, Special Guest and Coffee Chats in the private Facebook Group.

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24/7 RESOURCES

We know what it's like to be scrolling at midnight, heading down the rabbit hole after the latest spanner-in-the-works with your daughter. Fear not: your Village resources are on hand 24/7. (Now back to sleep!)

If nothing changes, nothing changes. Join today and pay nothing for your first month.

LET'S GO
WANT TO LOOK AROUND?

Let's take a quick tour...

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Your Raising Flames Village Dashboard. 

✔️ Everything you need in one easy-to-access place

✔️ Check the message-board for when events are taking place and add them to your calendar

✔️ Keep up to date with the release of new content (added monthly)

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A community of parents navigating the tween and teen years. 

✔️ Discuss key challenges and swap successful strategies

✔️ Apply for your chance in the 'Hot Seat' 1:1 session with Tanya

✔️ Connect with parents around the world

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A growing suite of practical courses and masterclasses. 

✔️ Immediate access to our signature 'Stronger Than You Know' online course (valued at $197)

✔️ Our Conversation Starter Kit (RRP $97) and Social Agreement Kit (RRP $47)

✔️ And more added throughout the year with 10 Communication Blockers Masterclass arriving in Feb (valued at $197)

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Go-to resources you can implement *today*. 

✔️ 30 day Confidence Calendar

✔️ Managing Emotions reference sheet

✔️ 10 Tips to successfully navigate tricky conversations

✔️ And much more!

 

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Informative, instructional and engaging videos on the go. 

✔️ Topics include triggering behaviour, confidence development, communication techniques and much more

✔️ Replays of live workshops, special guests

✔️ Replays of 'Hot Seats' featuring Village members' 1:1 sessions with Tanya

YOU'RE GOING TO MESS UP SOMETIMES

 But we're going to do this together.

I've worked with over 4000 teenage girls, parents and educators in recent years, AND I'm a parent myself. No one in this world gets it 'right' all of the time, but sitting back and hoping things will change  on their own is a shortcut to disaster. 

Consistent support from myself and the Raising Flames Village community will help you know what action to take and what to do to recover from set-backs.

JUST TO RECAP

As a resident of the Raising Flames Village you get:

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24/7 access to the Village for support as and when you need it
Valued at $597
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Immediate access to over $500 worth of courses, templates and resources to help you build your daughter's confidence.
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Membership to the private Raising Flames Village FB Community
Valued at $597
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Monthly support through live workshops, challenges, special guest experts
Valued at $1299
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Exclusive discounts to virtual and live Girl Shaped Flames events and new courses 
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$100 off* our signature Courageous Parenting Coaching Program (*Annual members only)
AND THE BEST BIT??
Join today and lock in your membership price FOREVER.

To celebrate opening the Raising Flames Village doors,  all foundation members who join will never experience a price-rise while part of the Village. (T's & C's Apply)

(HOT TIP 👉 the price is going up in early 2022...)

MONTHLY ACCESS

$47/mth

✔️ Cancel anytime
✔️ Lock in this price to avoid any future increases!

JOIN NOW WITH FIRST MONTH FREE!

ANNUAL ACCESS

$470/yr

✔️ Get 2 months' FREE
✔️ Lock in price to avoid any future increases!
✔️ BONUS $100 off 2022 Courageous Parenting Program

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14-DAY MONEY-BACK GUARANTEE

You're covered by our guarantee.

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Everyone's parenting challenges are different. I'm confident that the Raising Flames Village can provide the support, down-to-earth advice and immediately applicable tools and strategies that *most* parents need in their circumstances.  

However if you get into the Village and know within the first 2 weeks that it's not for you? We'll refund your full payment with no questions asked.  

Ready to face the tween and teen years head-on... together?
YES, LET'S DO THIS!